The truth is Ugly, isn't it?

Gee, I just bought some new DVD’s lately, then enjoyed one of them which totally it’s hardly forgotten and it was “The Ugly Truth” staring by Gerard butler and Katherine heigl, and it was just amazing, funny and fantastically romantic. I just lill bit surprised knowing what is actually man’s thinking about woman and vice versa which is socially true.
First of all, Mike (Gerard butler) said that ‘man are visual’, they attracted of women by their appearance! See, that’s what we can’t be denied—millions of girls keep fuck*n (sorry from this inconvenient word, just lill bit influence by the movies I saw lately =D) trying make man’s eyes out by change their look [from ugly-pretending to be beautiful, from simple become not simple, and so forth] by seeing this it’s all fake everyone, because the truth is ugly! No body could love at the first sight by its personality, no one! One thing, He said, man are interested to see women ass and their tits.. (Goddamn it, are you really doing this guys..???)
Second of all, he said “never talk about your problem, because men don’t really listen or care”, that’s terrifying knowing this truth, o my god!! Well, some are care, but they must be pretend to care!! See, So what we have been guy, is that true? At time I just screwed up my mind, and what mostly they indeed want from relationship if they actually don’t care about our problems??—was it emotionally connected or just physically intention, or what..? In fact, Men are totally not simple, they just freak*n complicated. Surprisingly, when he asked you “how you’re doing”, it means (its guy code for: “Let me stick my dick in your ass) hahaha… lol, you are completely nuts guys…!! I mean, probably it depends on the culture, no worries; I do still believed that they are some who asked it sincerely.
Another case, I just realized that when we love someone, sometimes we pretend to like something which we don’t like, like not being the way we are, example, when we used to had first dating, we used to be dressed as perfect as we could, act perfectly and so forth —but that’s how it’s going, it indeed happen to us! Looking and see how’s everything going, I can assume that’s there is no ‘ideal’ relationship, since it always deals with two different heads with two different wanted. Pathetically, I don’t have healthy relationship since we usually spent our Saturday night separately, well; I mean I don’t make this thing as a big deal, no, but sometimes a question such “Malem mingguan kemana?”, that honestly disturbing questions. Well, okay, this don’t have something deals with the issue which previously I wrote, it just kind of ‘curhat keci” or I must say “keluh-kesah” which I don’t where I have to put it down, but I thank god so far my bf is someone who can love me the way I am (I wish..), knowing my bad fart, how do I look like when I just get up and all, hopefully, he receives my ugliness—not just love me physically but also my personality 